Friday of the Sixth Week of Easter
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Jesus said to his disciples: “Amen, amen, I say to you, you will weep and mourn, while the world rejoices; you will grieve, but your grief will become joy…I say to you, whatever you ask the Father in my name he will give you.”
Weep and mourn. First thought. This is transitory. Weeping and mourning are a part of life, just like clouds and raindrops are a part of the week (or month, if you live in Texas). But as awful as they make the day, they are essential for sunny days. We need to weep and mourn, otherwise we would take everything and everyone for granted. It’s awful, but it’s true. It’s awful to see someone suffer, but it is good to see those who suffer. I, for one, have learned so much from those who have suffered. I have also learned a lot from those who have avoided any type of suffering. It is scary what happens to them.
Second thought. Is Christ inviting His disciples to weep and mourn? I believe He is. But why? Does the Lord want us to feel bad about His impending doom? I don’t think so. Does He want us to be sympathetic to His pain? I doubt it. Then why is He inviting His men to cry?
Weeping and mourning are an essential part of reconciliation. Christ invites His followers – all of us – to acknowledge the truth tragedy reveals about the human condition: we are imperfect and limited beings, and if we try to deny this fact or hide it from others, we ruin ourselves.
Prior to His arrest, the Apostles wept. After His arrest, they ran and hid, just like our ancestors of long ago: after their fall, after their first sin. But once the Apostles had a chance to reflect on their loss and their sins, then their mourning turned into a prelude to bold action and remarkable evangelization.
The rest of their story is God’s amazing grace: “I will see you again, and your hearts will rejoice, and no one will take your joy away from you.”
Whatever you ask the Father in my name he will give you. Final thought. Be careful in what you ask for. Otherwise, you may find yourself at odds with God’s plans.
“I do not want to suffer like the Saints.” Then be prepared to suffer and not be a saint!
Do not ask the Lord to take away your sorrow. Rather, ask for the grace to grow from it. Do not ask for the Lord to remove all obstacles from your life. Instead, ask Him for the courage of patience and guidance.
Do not ask the Lord to take the life of your enemy. Come now! Rather, ask for their conversion. Finally, do not ask the Lord to take away your life. Instead, ask for the grace to be a lighthouse for others.
Only once did the Lord ask His Heavenly Father to remove the cup that was placed in front of Him, and immediately He repented, saying “Yet not my will, but yours be done” (cf. Lk 22:42).
Weeping and mourning are nothing but tell-tale signs of maturity and growth. Do not run away from them, but embrace them and get to work.